7. You Feel Like You Should Tail Her
If you feel increasingly suspicious of her activities when she’s not with you to the point where you are fighting the urge to take a day off of work just to follow her and see for sure what she is doing every minute of the day, then it’s a sure sign that something is wrong with the relationship. It might be that there are subtle shifts in her attitude that has led you to be suspicious of her, or something she said that didn’t sit right that triggered a suspicious response in you.
At the end of the day, the best thing that you can do is just ask her. Be gentle but straight-forward. Be prepared for her response either way, and remember that in most cases, cheating is not something that she did to deliberately hurt you. It is usually a symptom of an otherwise unhealthy relationship that was probably heading to a break-up sooner or later anyway, so neither of you are completely to blame.
